I never understood why people played this Love Game of stringing someone along/you can’t have my “Whole” heart or why the partner even participates. I’m not saying I’ve never been there, but it was only one time, it hurt, and I learned my lesson…without having to take the course over and over again.
What I want to ask the people that are Always chasing love from a undeserving partner is, “Do you Really think that this person is going to change?”, “Do you think that some magical event is going to happen? That he or she will finally appreciate you and treat you the way they’re suppose to once you’re together or married?”
Sweetheart “WAKE UP”! Compromise won’t get you the Good Man or Woman you desire, but Standards will!!!
1. Makes sure you’re whole: You need to be the BEST you, you can be. Not insecure and needy, looking for someome to make you whole. The wrong man or woman knows how to seek out this type of person. Better yourself for you, so that the love and respect you have for yourself will be evident to everyone that comes in your presence AND this will eliminate those that don’t need to be there.
2. Make a Standards List: Know what you want. Set boundaries. Don’t compromise the necessities (respect, integrity, faithfulness, employed, etc.). But also know that no one is Perfect, including you!!
Love yourself, respect yourself, enjoy life, and enjoy building relationships!! Everyone has their individual issues in their relationship, but this type of game playing should not be one of them…if you want it to be successful and if you want it to last!!
Until the next time stay, “Beautiful, Sassy, and Sophisticated!!”
Shemmyla Green aka Ms. Sophisticated