There are three types of people that I’m going to point out. Their maybe others or a combination of a few, but let’s focus on these three:
- The Arrogant – the person that thinks they are more superior than everyone else, they have a deity complex and they are very condescending when they speak to others
- The Critical – the person that analyzes and criticizes everything and everyone, they give their opinion even if you did not solicit it and usually it’s negative
- The Victim – the person that thinks they are always taken advantage of and they are usually very critical of themselves
We have all come into contact with these people over the course of our lives or maybe you are one of the three. Even though these three personalities are very different, they stem from the same root of INSECURITY!!
In my opinion, Insecurity comes from a lack of confidence and love of your whole self, flaws and all! I believe that if you truly loved yourself correctly, you would have a greater respect, care and support of others, because you would no longer see them as your Competition.
As a whole, we as people need to do better. My assignment for all of us is to make a list of our Strengths and Weaknesses. Write down how you and others can capitalize off of your Strengths. Then write down how you can strengthen your Weaknesses. You should strive to be the BEST You, You can be, because you were Beautifully and Uniquely created for a purpose! You’re not an Accident!! Next make the effort to treat people better. Give people Real, not Fake compliments, assist those that need help, celebrate with those that are advancing and sympathize with those that are going through hard times.
Let us begin our Personality Makeovers together, with the goal in mind to be Beautiful and Fabulous from the inside out! And wearing Confidence like a new pair of Dolce & Gabbana sunglasses! Lol!
Let me know what you think about this and keep me posted on your progress, but until then stay “Beautiful, Sassy and Sophisticated”!!
Shemmyla Green aka Ms. Sophisticated